Ever go to coffee and the cashier asks you if you’d like to buy a charity star or dove for $1 or $5? Well, my rule is if I’m in line and someone is beside me, then I always say yes. Even if I go everyday and have given each time, I still buy one.
I don’t think it’s right for the person next to me to hear “No.” If I say “yes” then they may buy one too. If they hear “no’ they may think it’s okay not to be charitable.
When they hear my YES and then they choose not to contribute then that action is solely theirs.
Pay attention to who is around you. You don’t want to be the one that let’s them off the hook from doing the right thing.